Is there really such a thing has Happily Ever After, or is that shit just for the movies? I dont know what the case maybe, either way it has me scared. Im use to reading fairy tales and they all end by saying: "And They Lived Happily EVER AFTER!!" So growing up with parents that have been living happily ever after thats all that I expect from myself.
BUT!!!!!!
The things is when you look in the media and real life situations, it is rare that couples stay married and live that fairy tale ending that we all dream about. Divorce rates are at a all time HIGH. Couple Nas and MS. Bossy Kelis was one of the hottest couples out, I mean she was the one tattoo'd on his arm. They were a couple all for giving back, shared the same passions with music, and was expecting their first child together. Out of nowhere its talk that Kelis has filed 4 Divorce (7 month pregnant!!!). Is it that people don't stick it out anymore, or dont know the ethics of marriage. This is why so many feel there is no need to get married when most of the time it ends in divorce (statistics will back me)
I dont know bout yall but I keep questioning myself if there really such a thing as Happily Ever After??
Of course there is a such thing as Happily Ever after if you believe in your own happiness. Marriage doesn't equal happiness your thoughts and mind set do. If you believe you are happy then you create happiness around you...because marriage is an external factor it is difficult to measure marriage with happiness because it comes from within.
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